Are you thinking about a career as a Second Life Escort Girl?
Then, you should read this post. It gives you insight into how to get started and make some serious cash as a Second Life Escort Girl.
I am making money every time I start a new character who goes into sex work. Even those characters who were not meant to become sex workers ended up getting paid well for virtual sex.
In my first few weeks on the grid as Michelle, I turned over around 20,000 L$. As I said in a previous post, I spent most of that money on seriously upgrading my looks.
About half of this money was generated via the “Black Escort Group” and the “Hot Escorts” group. The other half I made on the region “Street Whores”.
Yes, it does what it says on the tin.
You stand on the street waiting for a potential customer to approach you. That can be very boring. So many girls compete for only a few customers now and then.
Other characters I created ( Candy, Robin, and Yaya) did even better. Yaya made about 60.000 L$ in the first month, each with a different approach.
Of course, it helps to look good. That doesn’t mean you need the hottest, sexiest avatar on the grid to succeed. I always started with a simple but sexy avatar made of free stuff and later invested in upgrading my looks.
It also helps people communicate in local chats when they arrive in the region. I am pretty popular there or have been lucky so far. I don’t know for sure.
This was also where I was picked up for the “animations testing” I wrote about in an old post.
However.
It is not always the case that you get picked and end up in an exciting adventure or story. Most customers simply want to go somewhere, fuck you, jerk off in real and leave. It is really that simple.
I will detail the different types of customers later in this post.
Basics For Second Life Escort Girls
(If you are working with Takeda Media, you get intensive training for that)
Of course, I try to get all of them on my friends list. That makes it easier to contact them and establishes a base of regular clients.
Once you have enough regulars, you don’t need to promote yourself that much anymore, and standing on the street for ages or waiting in a club is no longer necessary.
Bear in mind:
Sex with an escort girl or even free sex is available in abundance in Second Life. But you are unique. You only exist once in Second Life. Hence, the reason you need to sell yourself.
Regulars are clients who return because of you, not because of a random fuck. He can get the latter for free anyway.
Creating A Hot Second Life Avatar
Creating a pleasing hot avatar is essential in this profession. Second Life is a visual medium, and if you don’t look the part, you do not have the slightest chance of being successful as a virtual whore.
I did set up numerous Second Life Escort girls myself. Find here two examples:
Second Life Escort Rachel (Candygirl)
Rachel is an example of how to create a sexy avatar when you don’t have much money to start with. My budget was only 500 L$ to get started. With the money I made (being a cheap whore), I upgraded her step by step to a beautiful girl.
Creating a Sexy Avatar on a low budget
High-Class Asian Escort Kim
Don’t have the patience for freebie hunting and want to get going as a high-class Second Life escort girl?
Invest 20.000 L$ and get set up fast.
Creating a Hich Class Second Life Escort girl
The Older Lady Charleen
Are people getting turned on by old women?. Yes, there is a market for elderly Escorts for three reasons:
- Many men in Second Life are beyond 40 or even 50 in real life. They appreciate a lady who looks mature and similar to their age.
- Most Second Life escort girls look betwenn 18 and maybe 30. Having an elderly looking avatar makes you stand out of the crowd.
- There are young men (+18) in Second Life who fantasize about sex with older women. Some of them even have incest fantasies. There are even groups for that in Second Life.
For that market I re-created Charleen (Charly for short).
Best Tip for a New Second Life Escort Girl
This can be a game changer: Specialise in a niche. Whores who cater to everything and everybody you have a lot in Second Life. The competition is fierce.
Here are some niches you might want to consider ( and create your avatar accordingly).
- Escort girl for black girl lovers (Michelle)
- Escort girl for Asian girl lovers (Kim)
- Escort girl for guys who love older ladies (Charleen)
- Escort girl for submissive men of BDSM fans (None of mine)
- Escort girl for those who love very young girls (Rachel)
- Sugar girl for incest lovers (Sheraka)
- The next-door girl (Robin)
For most of those niches you will find groups in Second Life , where you can easily promoted yourself to an exact targeted market.
Optional: Using Lovense Remote Control Sex Toys
Lovense remote-control sex toys became increasingly popular in Second Life. No surprise here: It is the next level of virtual sex. It allows you to remote control your partner’s toy and stimulates him/her.
Some furniture designers make beds that can connect to the app and the RL toy. Depending on the animations chosen, the toy stimulates faster or slower, sucks, strokes, or vibrates.
As a sex worker, you can make serious money using Lovense. There is a massive market for it.
How to Make Money Money Using Lovense Toys
Voice Sex
You wear a Lovense toy and log into a Lovense tip jar at a club or place with Lovense enabled. Every time somebody tips you, the toy reacts. How long and how intense it reacts depends on the amount tipped.
Of course, the guest wants to hear how you react to the stimulation. That means you need to have voice enabled. This can make you potentially more money than having text-based virtual sex.
Seriously!
Those clients go elsewhere if you don’t offer it, and another girl makes the cash.
Clients Using a Lovense Toy
Guys are using Lovense toys as well. The most common one is called Lovense Max. It can connect to sex furniture in Second Life. If you learn how to connect the toy and use the corresponding hud, you have an edge over many other whores. This guarantees you regular clients.
More about Lovense Remote Control
Best Places to Get Started as a Second Life Escort Girl
Candy’s Sex Bar and Hotel on Street Whores
We did create some time ago a new location for sex workers. It works differently than the usual escort clubs in Second Life.
Instead of a club, we created a hotel with the theme “Candy’s Sex Bar and Hotel.” We combined a role-playing theme with sex services, adding a fun aspect to escorting and making it stand out from other escort locations.
It feels different to go to a hotel that offers sex as room service by members of staff than to go to a brothel and pay by the hour.
Here is the deal:
Guests pay a flat fee to become hotel guests and get sex with the waitresses and sex with the maids included. The membership fee will be divided among owners and managers. The sex worker keeps 100 % of her tips and participates in the beer sales. Yes, we do sell virtual beer and make money with that.
The Advantages
Regulars
Candy’s already has a member base of regular guests. You can chat with the group members and see who is online, making it much easier to hook up than waiting on the street.
Free Rooms
If you become an official Candygirl, you can use the hotel rooms completely free of charge. There are four rooms available, each one with different, top-quality sex furniture to suit different tastes.
Established Region
Street Whores is in a well-known region with excellent traffic. Street Whores just recently got taken over and redesigned to attract even more guests. For a small fee, you can even rent your own small apartment there to take your clients.
How I Became a Second Life Escort Girl
I embarked on my undercover mission to investigate the escort scene in Second Life. I asked myself the question, why do men use escort girls when there are so many opportunities to have virtual sex available for free?
Hence, I decided to become an escort girl to gain first-hand experience (pun intended).
My initial approach was to try as a freelance escort girl, trying to find clients in all kinds of venues. This approach failed miserably, and I concluded (admittedly a bit preempted) that there is not much, if any, demand for escort girls.
At least not enough to make decent money for Second Life standards.
Then, I met the girls at the Magic Dream Angels. They built, ran, and promoted a classy, friendly escort club. I agreed to work with them, fully disclosing my intention to write about it on Second Life Adventures.
Everything was different then. I learned that having an attractive location and a welcoming environment are critical to success in the sex business in Second Life. It does work.
Within a short period, I made around 10,000 L$, a good income compared to other jobs in Second Life.
This experience also answered my all-important initial question: Why do men use escort girls in Second Life? I compiled the following list based on my experience as an escort girl. It might not be complete or representative of all escort establishments.
Why Do Guys Use Second Life Escort Girls?
You need to understand the reasons those guys will hire you. Each one needs to be treated differently. Find out here the different types of customers and how to treat them.
Because of Availability
Sometimes men (and women, for that matter) are just horny. They are in the mood and want it there and then.
Especially when they don’t have much time online, they don’t want to go through all the motions of flirting, chatting up, dancing, and seducing an „ordinary “ girl. An escort girl is available, all it takes is pay her and have fun.
Get to the point with this type of customer. Don’t beat around the bushes or put too much time into foreplay. When finished, make sure you leave swiftly. Please don’t make him feel he is obliged to do all the after-sex-cuddling.
Because They want Quality Virtual Sex
At most of the free sex places, there is no such thing as quality role-play. All you can do is hop on a poseball and watch two avatars doing pixel sex – not everybody´s cup of tea, as it does not „feel“ like having sex. It’s just cheap pixel porn.
A good escort girl knows what is essential: to give the client the impression of actually having sex, how to turn him on, and arouse him in real to the point of him having bliss, excitement, and even an orgasm in real.
Not all escort girls are that good. Many take the money and get it done as quickly as possible with the least possible effort – a disappointing experience for the client and a “never-come-back-client” for the escort girl – understandably.
This type of customer is very demanding. Make sure you do your homework and learn how to create descriptive and erotic emotes.
Because Their Second Life Girlfriends Are Not (Enough) Into Virtual Sex
Some clients do have a SL partner. That sounds weird at first, but it isn’t at all. I have had clients in a stable relationship over the years, but their partners were not much into virtual sex.
Those men still love their girlfriends and have no intention to break up the relationship, but for the sexual part, they go to a discrete escort girl – no strings, no commitment, no drama.
Using an escort service does not feel like cheating on their girlfriend to them, as would be having an affair or chatting up girls at the usual date & dance places.
Discretion is of utmost importance.
This type of customer needs to trust you. Never speak about your customers to others. Never ask questions about his partner, girlfriend, or Second Life home. Oh, and never visit his house, business, or places he frequents.
Because They Can Easily Afford it
Some clients make serious money in Second Life (for Second Life standards). They spend a lot of time in Second Life with their business. Creating things, customer support, promotion—such things take up time, and there is not much In-World time left to go dating.
Those guys go to a club for some uncomplicated fun, and as they can easily afford to pay or tip an Escort girl, they don´t mind letting us participate in their Second Life success.
They are fun to be with and probably your best source of income. At Candy’s, you will see them spending tons of money on beers and tips.
Don’t pressure them. They will tell you what they want and when they want it. Many times, it’s not sex but a bit of fun entertainment.
To Support The Location
People enjoy being a part of something.
Several regular clients book us to support the idea of a welcoming, classy club. A place where people are greeted as friends, where we have fun at parties, and where the girls are not greedy bitches but enjoyable company.
Those clients don´t even see it as paying for sex; they see it as financial support to a place they like and people they enjoy being with, and sex is an added yet well-appreciated bonus.
Those are the best clients because they treat us well, come regularly, and don´t complain about prices. We even have one guy with a “flat rate.”
He finances a large part of the tier fees. With one monthly payment, he can have fun with us as often as he likes (or as frequently as he can)—an actual win-win situation and a “friend of the house.”
This customer is not just your client; he is your friend. Make sure he always feels welcome at your place. Please do not insist on booking him; wait until he asks for it.
He will tip you anyway, even without having sex with you.
To Learn How to Do it Properly
Yes, that happens too.
I got booked to teach how to have sex in Second Life – properly. These men want to be well prepared before meeting a regular girl (or even their Second Life partner) before taking a girl to bed, ready to impress and not spoil it.
This is an excellent reason to use an escort girls’ service: Lessons in Love. I think all Noobs should at least once do that if only they could afford it.
Make sure you know the ropes yourself. Learn how to explain technical things in a way he understands. That includes changing poses, choosing poses, emoting, adjusting poses, and connecting Lovense.
He came to learn something: if that leads to sex with you, even better.
Because They Want to Try Something Different
Threesomes, lesbian shows, BDSM, rape scenarios, gang bangs, Master/slave games and so on. Whatever kink it is, one might fancy, it’s safe to try with an escort girl. Escorts get paid to do it and to shut up about it. However, this does not happen often. Most clients want regular sex.
Never accept that type of customer if you are not into those kinks. Send him to a colleague who knows how to do it.
Because They Like Me
I did have clients who would not go to other escort girls. They fancy me or even have a little crush on me. They don’t mind supporting me with some money to be with me.
Spend some time with this type of customer. Become a friend with benefits, listen to him, and show interest in his thoughts, problems, and desires. This is your most loyal customer, and he will surprise you with lovely gifts.
In Conclusion
People use escort girls in Second Life for similar reasons to those who use them in real life.
I also met some guys who would refuse categorically to have sex with an escort girl. No, it’s not the fear of catching a virus. In my experience, you can categorize those anti-paid-sex guys into four categories.
People Who Do Not Use Second Life Escort Services
I met guys who would refuse categorically to have sex with an escort girl. No, it’s not the fear of catching a virus. In my experience, you can categorize those anti-paid-sex guys into four categories.
If you meet any of those, don’t waste time trying to sell yourself. Just call it a day and try elsewhere.
The Broke
He admits he doesn’t have SL money. There’s no problem with that; some people have chosen not to buy Linden Dollars and do not make money in the Real World either.
I can respect that. Even so, I believe someone who refuses to participate in the Second Life economy is not a Second Life resident. I call them SL tourists.
Please treat them with respect and be friendly and helpful. They will remember that once they might become an actual Second Life resident.
However, there are some false brokes as well. They pretend to be broke in the hope of getting a free pity fuck – how lame is that?
The Macho
He is so awesome, so good-looking, and in his perception of himself, he is such a desirable man that he almost believes he should be the one who is supposed to get paid. Using escort services would potentially make his penis shrink.
The Romantic
He is not looking for sex. He is looking for love. He wants to be the prince on a white horse who rescues the poor escort girl from her miserable life and be with her in digital eternity.
The movie “Pretty Woman” inspires him, and his attempts to “rescue” the girl are so persistent that it almost feels like being stalked.
I am sure they missed the part in Pretty Woman when Richard Gere gave Julia Roberts 3.000 USD for escorting him for a week and a credit card to go shopping on Rodeo Drive.
Hey, do you want to rescue me? Give me 3,000 L$, and we can go shopping at Addams or Frank’s Gallery
Be careful. This type is a potential stalker.
The Moralist
It’s wrong to be a prostitute. We will all burn in hell for having abused the desires, emotions, and weaknesses of men to get their money.
Get Started
Please don’t be shy about it. Contact me In-World for an Interview.
Can you post the marketplace link for the INM system, please? I\’ve been searching the marketplace and I cannot find it.
Hi Jess
you find it at the shop at Candy’s Hotel.
Carol