Last updated: 08/2024
This article is about Second Life’s best sex places and destinations. I show you where to go if you want to explore the sexual side of Second Life. This is a compilation of places I visited with different accounts/characters.
I will update this article regularly whenever I discover a new, exciting, or trendy sex region in Second Life. I also remove places that are no longer online or that aren’t popular anymore.
You should read Caroline Takeda’s guide to Second Life sex before you visit those destinations to get the most out of the experience.
This post is about what I think are Second Life’s best sex places. I have chosen the places by the following criteria:
- Popularity
- Quality of Design – Look and Feel
- Clear Theme
- Immersion – Experience
- Quality of Animations
- Balanced Monetization
I did not include places I suspect artificially inflate their traffic, such as regions using bots or campers. Please note that I do not need to prove that this is the case.
Update:
I removed places where too many ad boards or excessive shopping malls interfered with the experience and places that used outdated sex animations and poor design elements.
Danger Creek Lake Trailer Park and Motel
The Danger Creek Trailer Park and Motel is my latest discovery in Second Life. I found it as Rachel during my 50 L$ challenge.
The region consists of a very nicely designed trailer park located around a lake and a simple motel equipped with modern sex beds. The motel also features a fun pool area.
You can rent trailers for a reasonable price or stay for free at the motel. Take your date to the motel, or order “extra services” at reception (or IM directly: Rachelsla).
This service is available for both trailer park tenants and motel guests. Remember to tip the “room maid” (a reasonable tip is about 300 to 500 L$).
If you are a fan of AFK sex, you find one or two girls offering their bodies around the pool or in a motel room for free (tips appreciated).
Tenants and group members can rez vehicles. You can ride your car or motorbike around the lake or to a nearby town (the town can be reached by tunnel).
Little boats and bicycles are available for free.
Teleport to Danger Creek Trailer Park and Motel
X-Sisters Sex Bar & Motel
Owned by Jess X, X-Sisters is the result of working for Takeda Media and being trained by Caroline Takeda herself. With that experience, Jess opened her own venture. Sure, it’s a sex-for-money bar, but that’s just the start. This is the ultimate Second Life sex destination for those who want more than the basics.
The main bar at X-Sisters is where it all goes down. This is the heart of the action, where the X-Girls dance, fuck, and give you the time of your life. The bar is enormous, with sofas to kick back on, dance spots, and a Wall of Fame—think you have what it takes to get up there?
Have you ever dreamt of living in a filthy motel a few steps away from your favorite dive bar? At X-Sisters, you don’t have to imagine. You can wake up with a raging hard-on and want a hot girl to handle your needs right there and then. Room service? Hell yeah, they’ve got that.
Tired of being stuck inside? Craving sun, sex, and bikinis by the ocean? At X-Sisters, that’s your reality. Whether it’s a quick screw under the sun or a long, drawn-out fuck by the sea, this destination has got you covered.
Maybe you’re after something a bit more twisted. Want to explore the darker sides of BDSM in a venue that feels like a BDSM venue? Head to the Collar & Cocktail BDSM bar area. It’s raw, authentic, and ready to give you exactly what you crave.
X-Sisters Sex Bar isn’t just an experience—it’s a way of life. With gorgeous, highly trained girls who specialize in every type of sex imaginable, this is the Second Life sex spot you’ve been searching for. The X-Girls don’t only talk about sex; they live and breathe it. This is where fantasies come to life, no bullshit, no limits.
Mirage Motel 66
Imagine driving through the desert in Nevada or California, passing through a typical small town along the road.
You decide to stay at the local motel, Mirage Motel 66. You park your car and check in at reception.
The receptionist is a drop-dead-gorgeous young girl. Just looking at her, you can barely hide your growing erection in your pants.
You go to your room, still thinking of that beautiful girl. The bed looks very comfortable, and you decide to shower after that long drive through the desert.
Still naked, you make yourself comfortable on the bed. Someone is knocking at the door. You take a towel to cover yourself and open the door. The receptionist excited you when checking in.
“Hello, sir. Is everything okay? Is there anything I can do for you?”
This could be a typical roleplay scenario at the Mirage Motel 66 in a region called Motherroad.
This region offers even more than the motel. There is a bar, diner, and other authentic-looking places and features. The region resembles a typical American small town in the desert along the famous Road 66.
Roleplay is optional but encouraged.
{After-Taste} SPA & Lounge
I recently discovered the {After-Taste} SPA and Longe. The concept is similar to the Breathe SPA, which is already on this list.
When you teleport to the {After-Taste} SPA, you land in the locker room and are asked to change.
The dress code is rigorous (at least in the SPA area). You are allowed to wear a towel, bathroom robe, or swimwear. Nude is encouraged but optional.
The SPA consists of several pools, a gym, a sauna, and several niches where you find beds and sofas with sex animations.
The place has an outstanding, beautiful, and very detailed design. It is one of the best-designed places of its kind.
If you get tired of the SPA, you can teleport to the lounge, which features a bar area, a restroom, and a cinema.
If you are more adventurous, stroll through the parking lot. Imagine a spontaneous quickie with a stranger in his car or a dark corner.
The {After-Taste} SPA is a members-only resort. For now, group membership is free.
This destination is trendy at the moment. Hence, it is easy to find someone for a hot sex adventure in a classy, hot, and sensual environment.
My own experience was a spontaneous fuck in the restroom of the lounge. More about that in a separate post.
Lovense Community Penthouse
The hottest shit in Second Life at the moment is having sex using remote sex toys called Lovense.
You can connect your Lovense toy to the furniture at this place. Depending on the animations you chose, the toy reacts in real-time and either vibrates or massages your real-life cock, while you fuck or get a blowjob in Second Life.
Takeda Media created this place for Lovense users to meet and have sex. It is free to use, and no tipping is required.
Read more about the Lovense Life Community Penthouse
Teleport to the Lovense Community Penthouse
The 3some Penthouse
Nomen est omen, or the name says it all. The location is nothing extraordinary, and it won’t become one of my favorites. It’s a prefab mansion. The interior design is okay and features a lot of sexable furniture.
Nevertheless, it made it to my list because it became trendy recently, probably because its theme targets a specific niche: people who enjoy MMF, FFM, and the like.
The location also has a very active group worth joining (free).
Do you want to partake in a couple’s sexual activities? Then, the 3some Penthouse is the place to be.
When I visited the location, several guys approached me quickly in IM. I chose the handsome young man leaning at the pool table.
Hotwife Hotel
This location has recently become one of the most popular adult dating places in Second Life. Traffic is almost always just below 100K.
As the name suggests, it resembles a classy hotel, featuring a hotel bar, a dance floor, and several rooms you may access,
The basic rooms are free of charge, and the more luxurious ones are for members only (membership is 1000 L$).
If you are looking for a friendly and classy place to take your sex date to, or if you are looking to meet and mingle with people to find a sex date, the Hotwife Hotel is possibly your best bet.
Sirens Beach
Most adult beach regions in Second Life lack design and imagination. The owner tosses a lot of prefab buildings and some sex beds in the sand and surrounds them with a few palm trees—job done.
Siren Beachsome is different. The builder did pay attention to detail and created an immersive and beautiful place. It features a fantastic villa, some chill hangouts, and secluded little huds for more privacy.
This will be my place to go when I fancy a sexy day out on the beach.
I met a guy there who showed me around, and then we…
No. It’s not what you think we did, although I can’t blame you for doing so, given my reputation. We had a game of naked chess. Yes, the villa’s garden has a fully functioning chessboard. It’s an excellent way to spend a few hours on a lazy Sunday afternoon.
(I did win).
Grandma’s Dirty Kitchen
Do you have a crush on older women? Then Grandma’s Dirty Kitchen is your place. The very cozy vintage-style house is open to everybody.
The garden and surroundings give the impression of a traditional American country home.
Below the house, you find a traditional dancing and party place, including a wardrobe, dance floor, and even toilets. You’re traveling back to the 1970s in a time machine.
Of course, you can also find several bedrooms if you want to get in action with your cougar or grandma. If you are in a hurry, simply fuck her in the kitchen.
Grandma’s dirty kitchen has been around for some time but only recently became somewhat more popular.
Go grab your granny.
Lovers Lane
What is dogging?
“Dogging is a British English slang term for engaging in sexual acts in a public or semi-public place or watching others doing so. There may be more than two participants; group sex and gang-banging can be included. As observation is encouraged, voyeurism and exhibitionism are closely associated with dogging.”
Wikipedia
This describes very well what is going on at Lovers Lane
The region is relatively famous without being overcrowded. You always find some people looking for casual sex encounters.
The region is well-designed and features a pretty garden with numerous semi-public places.
Caroline’s Secret Hideaway
Discretion.
It’s understood here at Caroline’s Secret Hideaway. Consider this your invitation to a place far off the beaten track with no return address.
There are no names in this place, only nuances. There are no profiles at the Hideaway, only the pull of a stranger in a mask and nothing else right before you.
There are no IMs at the Hideaway, only the desperate, surprised, hungry whisper of “I’m so close…”
Everything here in the Hideaway takes place in local Chat.
Nothing is hidden from anyone else’s eyes, but here, we’ll never know the name of the stranger who slipped her robe to the floor, took your hand, and guided you to the couch.
With your mask on, you can be everything you’ve wanted to be and allow your desires to reveal themselves. You might even discover things about yourself you might not even recognize.
Buy the mask to be able to enter the place.
Ensure you have RLV enabled before putting on your mask—this little face covering is your teleport and disguise. We wear elegant attire up here in the hideaway, as revealing as you wish it to be.
How it works:
- Wear the mask to get a teleport invitation
- To leave the event, you click on the mask you are wearing.
- It only works with RLV-enabled viewers.
Take off huds that reveal one’s identity (INM, mama alpha, and the like). The idea is not to know with whom you are; please don’t try to cheat the system.
This version includes a nickname tag. The tag with your chosen name will be displayed above your avatar and used in open chat.
This makes roleplay and communication much more accessible than with the previous version.
It is “modify” so you can add your textures.
There are themed events nearly every weekend.
Disclosure: This place is owned and operated by Takeda Media
Naked Harbour
This place has been around for some time and recently became popular in the adult community. It consists of 11 regions attached. Some are sailable; as the name suggests, it also features a small yacht harbor.
Naked Harbour is not just a region for those looking for sex. You can also go sailing, surfing, sitting around the campfire, and chill with some (naked) people.
I checked out one of those 11 regions called Crescent Cove for you. I chose this one because it seemed the busiest, at least when I went there (traffic 22k).
The design of the region is impressive. See yourself:
What I liked about Crescent Cove was this little wooden caravan; it was small but cozy.
I did have sex there as well. One guy awakened my curiosity, telling me there was a massage parlor nearby. He teleported me to a skybox above “Naked Rock,” the neighboring region.
The skybox resembled a space station dedicated to massages and showers. Of course, I had to try the sex animations and had a pretty good fuck, including a bit of voice.
If the combination of nudism, sex, and watersports is what rocks your boat, Naked Harbour is your place to be.
DeBunker
My latest discovery was a place that became popular almost overnight. This doesn’t happen very often in Second Life. It typically takes months, if not years, to get some decent traffic.
The place is called DeBunker.
Background
The old bunker and the run-down shack just in front of it had long since been a so-called ‘dogging spot’, where people went to find strangers and have anonymous sex. It had also been a well-kept secret that few talked about, so the place had been left relatively undisturbed, only to be enjoyed by a kinky crowd that maintained it rather well, placing some furniture and posters on the walls.
Inquiring eyes meet with inviting nods, often leading to arousing indulgences…
Welcome to… DeBunker!
About Dogging
From Wiki: “Dogging is a British English slang term for engaging in sexual acts in a public or semi-public place or watching others doing so. There may be more than two participants; both group sex and gang-banging can be included. As observation is encouraged, voyeurism and exhibitionism are closely associated with dogging. The two sets of people involved often meet either randomly or (increasingly) arrange to meet up beforehand over the Internet.”
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dogging_(sexual_slang)
Maui Swingers Resort
The Maui Swingers Resort is not for everybody.
Literally.
It’s a members-only destination, and the place has a strict application process. First, somebody who is already a member needs to vouch for you. Later, you get an interview with a senior member.
If they accept your application, you will start as a new member. To be upgraded to a full member, you need at least three recommendations from existing members.
You need to prove that you are into the swinger lifestyle and not just there to lurk around.
The place is trendy and typically bustling despite, or maybe because of this.
The Maui Swingers resort features a long beach, a pool area with a popular tiki bar, and a stylish mansion with many different playrooms. It resembles a tropical beach resort.
The owners of the place also own a furniture business in Second Life. They produce sex furniture themselves and use it at the Maui Swinger Resort. Most of the furniture connects with Lovense remote sex toys.
I can’t show you pictures of Caroline in action at Maui because it would be against the rules of the place. I can only show you this generic picture of me flirting at the tiki bar.
Breathe SPA and Bathhouse
Yet another trendy place is Breathes. It is a SPA for members only. Membership costs 1000 L$.
You arrive via teleport at a changing room. It is very appropriate, as you are only allowed to enter either naked or with nothing but a towel or bathing robe.
They make an effort to give you an authentic experience at Breathes. The entire place has dim light and steam everywhere (which is why you are asked to take off any face lights).
It has a very sensual atmosphere.
The center features a large round pool area where people meet and mingle. There are also several rooms with sex animations on rugs and a bathroom with a massage table, bathtub, and sauna.
Showers with INM features are available as well.
Almost always when I went there, there were many people without the place being too crowded or laggy.
Getting laid there was easy.
Always.
You can have sex there almost everywhere, including in the main pool area in front of everybody.
Mature Doggers Public Sex Park
This one is an institution amongst lovers of public sex. Traffic is not as high as in some of the other places I list in this blog post, but the place is still fairly popular.
It features a nice park where you can practice outdoor sex with like-minded people. Alternatively, you may book a room at the nearby motel. The rooms are free of charge.
I found the community to be very liberal, easy-going, and open-minded. When I went there to check in to a room, I didn’t make it past reception without getting fucked by a good-looking black guy.
Tortuga Islands
Twelve regions and almost 2,500 members make Tortuga Islands one of the most prominent nudist destinations in Second Life.
The place thrives because they are very strict about the theme. You are not allowed on the property unless you are nude.
No exceptions!
The central island has three areas: a naughty beach, a romantic beach, and a beach paradise. Each one caters to different interests.
Tortuga has rules to ensure people enjoy themselves, depending on which part of the region they have chosen.
For example, open chat is encouraged instead of jumping right into somebody’s IM. The “wanna fuck” approach can get you banned quickly.
I was missing one thing. Tortuga uses a lot of sex furniture from Debauchery. The recent releases of Debauchery can connect to Lovense toys. Tortuga doesn’t use those, and neither is the region Lovense enabled.
Maybe they don’t know about that feature.
I visited the naughty beach area when I went there—no surprise. I guess you expected me to do so.
And yes, after chatting and getting familiar with the place, I indulged in sexual activity. It was perfect fun! Those Debauchery animations are hot, and so was my partner.
Bare Sun Little Paradies
The Bare Sun is particularly popular amongst the LGBT Community in Second Life. You can see that when entering the place (Rainbow flag) and going to the beach. The vast majority of the people at the beach are transgender.
If that is your cup of tea, the Bare Sun Little Paradies is the place to be for you.
It also has a unique and picturesque design and layout. It resembles a tropical beach with several bars, many sex beds, and showers. Clothing is optional, and most people there opt out of clothing.
The locals make good use of those. There was quite a bit of fucking going on when I strolled along the beach.
I did not partake in any of that. It’s just not my thing. Instead, I enjoyed the scenery and taking photos of that beautiful place.
Candy’s All-Inclusive Sex Bar &Hotel
Update: Candy’s moved to Street Whores
One of the latest hot spots in the Second Life Sex business is Candy’s Sex Bar and Hotel. The concept differs substantially from other places offering sex for money.
You get an all-inclusive flat rate (600 L$)
Yes, you pay once to check in at the hotel, and everything else is included in an all-inclusive package. That consists of a room and poker table room and sex with the staff of Candy’s bar.
Sex with Staff of Takeda Media, the store, or regular hotel staff is NOT included in your flat rate. Sex services are supplied by dedicated staff in the bar.
However, I have heard of a rumor that one of the receptionists sometimes quickies with potential guests in the reception backyard after giving them a tour of the place.
Probably to convince them to sign up. Staff participates in the revenues.
Disclosure:
This place is owned and operated by Takeda Media.
Hooker Hotel
Yet another red light district region. This place is typically bustling. You can find there between 10 and 50 whores offering their services at any time of the day and day of the week.
The sex workers stand on the plaza or side streets and wait for their customers. As the name suggests, there is a hotel with free rooms. It is very convenient as you don’t have to look for a place to bring the girl of your choice.
Most girls working the streets in the Hookere Hotel region charge around 1000 L$ for half an hour (a typical rate for a street whore in Second Life).
Hooker Hotel is a good place for a quick and cheap fuck. It offers a wide choice of sexy whores and a convenient hotel.
Bar No. 5
Bar No. 5 used to be in the region “Street Whores”. They moved to the “Hooker Hotel” and opened a very fancy seafront bar in a place called Noir Wen City. Candy does shifts there sometimes.
Many of the local whores visit the place for a chat or to solicit business.
The bar features an innovative tipping system. You can buy the girls a round of beer or whisky by clicking and making payment to a beer bucket or a jar.
The girls can pick up and recycle the bottles in a bin behind the bar. For each bottle, they receive 25 L$.
It’s much more fun than the usual tip jars and generates more sales.
Teleport to Bar No. 5 on Noir Wen City
Balls to the Walls
Imagine a big classic burlesque-style strip club. It would have fancy interiors, nice free bedrooms upstairs, and a modern bar area. But there would be no guests, no people, nothing.
It is right behind the club where the action is. There, you find the door to “Balls to the Walls.” It’s a shady, dirty, small place offering glory hole fun.
The girls expose themselves through a hole in the wall. Her hips and legs stay on one side, and the rest lie on a table.
Men come, use the holes, and leave again. That simple.
Of course, I had to try this. I sat there and waited, but not for long. Within a short period, three guys used me.
Some people used the toilets in the back for sex, too.
Public Restrooms
Simple and to the point. Enter the bathroom, take a shower, and get fucked. It’s as simple as that. I did that, too, a little later. You will read about it here.
Tips & Tricks When Visiting Sex Locations
- Appearance. Please put some effort into it. Just as you want the women to look great, the women want you to look great. Visually appealing attracts. It’s how we are constructed.
- Genitals. Realistically sized and non-erected unless you are having sex. Nothing is more ridiculous than an oversized and constantly erect cock.
- Cocksizes to compensate for the lack of RL size look silly. The comment often accompanies them, “I’m this big IRL.” No, you are not. Make it look good instead. It can still be big without looking cartoonish.
- Learn how to adjust the poses and aim your dick correctly. Most furniture today has excellent tools for changing your position in their menu. And aiming your cock should be second nature, just as aiming your cock IRL is…
- Communicate. IMing the women is vital to getting sex. Standing next to a woman without saying anything won’t get you anywhere. And tell them what you want, don’t beat too much around the bush. And don’t joke at her expense. It’s a huge turnoff for most women.
- Respect the women you IM. Don’t call anyone slut or similar before making sure it’s okay. If you don’t make sure first, expect to get blocked a lot.
I hope this will help you have a more fun time in SL, with more intimacy.
Question To My Readers
Please let us know what your favorite sex place in Second Life is. In the comments, leave a small review of your favorite adult destination with the SLURL.
Thank you 🙂
Caroline
Post updated 08/29/2024
Well…consider a place like mature doggers good…is semi deserted and rarely somone do something more than AFK\’ish..anyway…
If you like asian themed lands you can visit lewdy asian teahouse, well built not overcrowded, ideal to bring your date and enjoy in a quiet place down there you find a nicea adult beach too
my 2 cents
There are two more places i can recommend: first is The Empress Brothel, the scale and beauty of this Asian themed adult place is just breathtaking to behold! You can take some of the best photographs on this place. The other sim is Humiliation Island, this one is ridiculously huge with so many unique biome to explore i don\’t know where to start. Glad i don\’t see any Bots-AFK sims on that list.
I didn\’t know AFK sex was an active interest of so many women. I always assumed they consisted of cash nets created by mostly male programmers.
One of my favorites is the Masturbation Island. Lots of masturbation animations available but plenty of others as well. They regularly check to make sure people are present. There\’s a good number of boys and girls. I\’ve had some good times just by invitingly masturbating.
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/The%20Sands/140/119/22
?So, how is the article dated March 2019 and the comments February 2018?
One of the fun places with excellent animations is The Dreamer’s Island. http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/The%20Dreamer/46/167/21
They have a capture events at the new moon and full moon. Full moon is for male predators and the new moon for female predators. One wears a tag to designate role and sexual preference. …and finding a good predator is difficult.
Hi Nalates,
because the article got updated several times, and moved from one domain to this one. 🙂
Jess
Never had any problems like age play asking at Grandpa’s garage. So not sure were this come from. Anyway i prefer beaches Island of the Insatiables, Laguna Bay (45, 183, 23) – Adult Or dungeons :):)
Thanks Liz
I will check that one out. 🙂
Jess
Hi Jessica!
I am the owner of Sleeping Beauty Sex Sim & Gentlemen’s Club. Thank you for the wonderful coverage. I too thought in the beginning that the AFK sex scene was only a fluke, but it blossomed into so much more! I am so proud of the little community we built. For us, the AFKer’s, it’s more than just about the sex. Our huts (now cottages) are our home.
Our group chat is bustling as we grow close to each other. We consider ourselves almost like sisters at Sleeping Beauty. Don’t get me wrong…we LOVE the sex too. We value each and every patron and look forward to all the naughty fun.
Best wishes to everyone! xoxo
Sounds great.
I see you have a blog too. I so need some backlinks for Google:-)
Jess
Duly noted lol ^^
are there any lesbian (with strapon) places?
There are several places for lesbians. They are just not in the top 10 of popular places.
I might actually do some research on that.
Maybe I even try myself and explore my bi side.
Jess
Hi Kay. There are many places that are specifically for lesbian girls. Or if you like, some are mixed for lesbians and girls with extra’s. Takes away the need of a strap-on 😉 You can very easily find them in search.
If you are looking for AKF lesbian places, I don’t think there currently are. There was a lovely one for shemales where a lot of girls visited, but they closed down a month or so ago. You would have better luck in AFK sims with room rentals though, like Sleeping Beauty or Dolls Delight. They usually have room where you can sit the AFK girls around (RLV Force Sit) and a lot have lesbian furniture as option in their rooms. And also quite some girls with extra’s.
If I may shamelessly self promote, in my own room for example (at DD) I have both types of furniture, but also a wardrobe HUD with the option to put on a strapless dildo or even a cock for those who like. So you see, its quite interactive if you get a good AFK doll these days 😉
Thank you Zeta..and how can I find you in SL?
Some nights nothing at all, others 1k plus. And everything in between. If I have to estimate an average I would say 300 per night.
I noticed on the really high traffic sims I made less, maybe because the competition is higher, but I feel the clients coming to the massive ones are different since those sims hardly have any moderation so less tips and a lot of freeloaders. Sims I prefer are the ones where the staff is actively around, sitting girls back in position, and just be there so clients maybe feel objected to go without leaving a tip.
I enjoy AFK places a lot, no need to RP, can choose any kind of partner you are in the mood for, and so many different high quality sex furniture. And sometimes I stay myself overnight and make some L$ 🙂 My personal favorite by far is Doll’s Delight because of their sim design: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Diablo/150/89/31
Hi Genelva,
thanks for your comment. Can you share with us, how many L$ you make in average when you decided to stay overnight?
Jess
Great List indeed!
I’m surprised in how many AFK places are a part of it but it’s currently the trending thing, and I get where people are coming from.
I aim to check some of these out when I’m back from hibernation.
I know you do love to explore so maybe I can expect to see more lists like this one (top 10 hotels, motels, beaches, museums, sailing places, flight sims, clubs, bdsm, music, cfnm/cmnf, swinger, forced?) all kinds of dirty thoughts come to mind.
Always looking forward to reading more.
Much Love
A
Hi A
Good Idea. Thinking about top swinger places for example.
But for swinger places I would actually need a partner.
Oh and as far as hotels goes, here go go:
https:///category/hotels/
Jess